The mysterious world of oral sex-Guest Post By David Montrose

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sugar daddy diaryI love oral sex. It wasn’t my first introduction to sex, but as soon as I discovered it (I was on the receiving end at the time) I never looked back. Blow jobs are almost as good as hand jobs, lol.

I think there are two types of women when it comes to giving oral sex.  Those who love to tease their man and love to see him sputter under her control. And then the other ones who would have nothing to do with that, as it is sinful and dirty in some way (that’s the minority of women, I hope!)

And I also believe that the way someone thinks about oral sex shows a lot about their personality, in a way.  Am I over thinking this? Not really.  The person who will willingly do this without hesitation will be the lady who enjoys pleasing her man and she feels empowered, in a way, by doing so.  At first it may seem that the woman would feel that is being submitted to something, given the fact that the man lays there waiting to be pleased..  However, I propose that oral sex gives the woman a lot of power and control. She has her man literally by the penis and she is singlehandedly responsible for creating immense pleasure for him. At that time he is subject to her whims and she has the upper hand. Think, ladies, how trusting and vulnerable he is at that precious moment. You are surrounding his manhood with your ruby red lips, and you love how he moans and you also appreciate the feel and texture of his penis. And, he looks down on you as you do all this, and you look up at him as well, thereby throwing in some porn star stuff for extra effect.

Now, the second category of women are those who detest guys going down on them: You know, the one that says ‘I can go down on you, but its ok, you don’t have to reciprocate, not into that’.

I never knew what the fuss was all about. I guess people get self conscious.  But on the other hand, isn’t sexual pleasure all about communicating, relaxing, and exploring? Then again some ladies may prefer something more mutually pleasing, like just straight sex. I once had a woman tell me she felt weird seeing some guy’s face between her legs, when only his eyes showed (the rest of his face buried in her vagina I assume!). I guess it was too much of a visual effect for her and she kept getting distracted.

Then again its could also be cultural. I was told that Asian women don’t enjoy that, it’s not considered good in their cultures. Or was that just an excuse for me not to go near there? Oh the things a guy hears when dating…

One thing is for sure: Don’t stop giving’em blow jobs!

As always, just one man’s opinion

David Montrose is an ex-sugar daddy and the author of ‘Sugar Daddy Diary’ where he accounts his dating experiences from a man’s viewpoint

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4 thoughts on “The mysterious world of oral sex-Guest Post By David Montrose

    anthonywinscom said:
    May 5, 2014 at 6:56 pm

    Reblogged this on realsugardaddydates.

    downtownlasd said:
    April 29, 2014 at 4:48 pm

    A woman who didn’t like or didn’t want oral sex (giving and/or receiving) never got past the first or second platonic date. I always had that conversation before sleeping with anyone. I just wish I’d had that conversation with my wife; it might have saved me thousands of dollars in SB investments.

      Detroit Date Coach said:
      April 29, 2014 at 5:05 pm

      Haha! Poor Porter :( I agree that those kinds of conversations need to happen early on.

    Sugar Daddy said:
    April 25, 2014 at 2:37 pm

    One woman I was involved with didn’t like oral sex because she didn’t want to be kissed after. She neither wanted to taste her own vagina, nor wanted a man who wanted to taste his own cum.

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