This week has seen two POTs resurface and ask how things are going with me. I let Lou and BD go several weeks ago, but they have been kind enough to look in on me via email, to ask about my relationship status. Have I chosen a sugar daddy? Would I reconsider them? Lou was the one who wrote a very long, heartfelt email. BD and I never got to a date. I have agreed to meet BD for lunch soon, but Lou is and was just too vanilla for me. Zero attraction!
As for the rest of the list… R and I have decided to remain friends, despite the fact that he has backed off becoming my main sugar daddy. He let me know that if I needed him to help, he would do so in a jam. I won’t write him off entirely. He did buy me a plane ticket and help with a little cash last week, so he is a good friend to keep. Additionally, he is a sweetheart and extremely caring.
POT lunch yesterday felt more like a job interview…ugh. Quite literally from the time I sat down, he started firing questions. I understand that the purpose of meeting is to get to know each other. However, chillax and let the conversation flow. Shortly after lunch, I emailed to let him know that I wasn’t the sugar baby for him. He was gracious and wished me luck. I have another POT lunch set for today and Thursday. A new guy from SA wants to meet tomorrow, but is working on his schedule. Friday is still open, so I will try to fit a couple of more gentlemen in.
Ashley Madison has proven to be productive in my search. I receive a ton of sugar baby curious email, winks and key requests, as opposed to sugar baby serious though. I instantly delete the young ones and respond to only a few. It’s more work than a sugar site, in that I have to sift through the email more carefully. I find myself questioning men constantly about what their interest is. Even though my profile asks that they respond with the understanding that I am a sugar baby, I always follow up to verify their intent. It should also be noted that my name and headline are as sugar baby as you can get. “Sugar baby Sarah” wants a mature sugar daddy. I keep the language of my profile on point with sugar and do not check off any of the boxes. So far-so good.
Alas….three months and about 14,752 dates into my search, I have yet to settle on a sugar daddy. It is exhausting at times, but persistence and a positive attitude will help me reach my goal. A little prayer to sweet sugar baby Jesus can’t hurt either. Right?! A…..men!