If we all had to sit down at this very moment, with a standardized test about being a sugar baby/sugar daddy; how would we score? Does anyone really have ALL the answers? Probably not. There is always a learning curve in the sugar bowl, because we all do what we do for different reasons. Some are in it for the money. Some are in it for a real and rewarding life experience. Then there are those that don’t know what the hell they want. Yet another reason I always stress being educated in sugar dating. I receive a lot of email asking for advice, help, profile rewrites, etc… I am always glad to assist and give honest criticism. There is always something for me to learn in the process as well. I get to meet other sugar babies and help them do and be better. I have also come across a few sugar daddies through my writing. Some I have counseled and a select few have become friends. Hence the reason for this post. Through sugar blogging I have had the privilege of making friends like David Montrose and Ed Porter. I enjoy reading their thoughts on sugar dating and the great stories are a bonus. The three of us will actually be doing guest post for each other in the near future. Stay tuned for that….
Now, I’m no sage or profit, but I am a pretty smart woman. I was raised by a very wise mother who taught me value in myself. She was my cheerleader as well as the first to express disappointment. I learned how to be a better person and woman from her. I wasn’t the typical kid and I actually see a lot of that in my own child now. Pay back is a bitch, I guess. Ha ha! From a young age, I was always an advanced student. I taught my self cursive writing at 5 years old for heaven sake. Seriously…no joke. Throughout my life I have always tried to teach myself anything and everything I possibly could. I actually have two associate degrees by accident, because I like to learn that much. Again, no joke. When it came to sugar dating, I took it on as I would any other learning opportunity in life. If I was gonna do it, then I should do it right! Not right in the sense that MY way is the best way, but right as in for the right reasons. It was important to me to sugar in a way that is a true reflection of who I am as a person. I am caring, giving, intelligent and smart….. and I just happened to like nice things.
In a time where sugar dating is seen as taboo or even said to be escorting, there are those of us that see it as an opportunity to enrich our lives. It’s not all about the money. I really can only speak for myself, but I know plenty of girls that feel the same way. This will be somewhat the premise of the above mentioned post exchange, with David and Ed. We will write about the modern sugar relationship and the effect of the escort mentality, that has come about in most recent times.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and even answer your questions about this topic, when I sit down to write. The more opinions the better!