If you are a Sugar Baby that doesn’t put out, I suggest you stop reading now. Sorry not sorry to all of the sugar babies out there that disagree, but sex is an important part of a mutually beneficial relationship. I’ve said it a million times and I will say it again. The sugar baby is the sugar daddy’s escape from the pressure of his real life. Part of being that release for him, is an actual release….and yes I mean from his penis. I just wrote about the importance of blow jobs. Something so simple as giving your sugar daddy a bj, can make his week. I know plenty of men whose wives straight up refuse to go down on them. No offense, but why should a successful, generous man spend time and money on you, if you don’t put out?
Enter stage left……the sugar baby. She is sexy, smart and available to her sugar daddy for a variety of things. Sometimes it’s just lunch or a quick shopping trip. Although he enjoys spending time with you, providing for you and even mentoring you, sometimes he just wants YOU. All of you, in your naked, sweaty, sexual glory. If you are a platonic sugar baby (which I don’t understand, by the way), how does this opportunity for intimacy and mutual pleasure not feel right to you? If a sugar daddy is going to pay my bills and take time away from his family and work to do things with/for me, I am gonna have sex with him. No ifs ands or butts about it. Part of my pleasure is taking care of that need for him. I have yet to meet a sugar daddy that isn’t missing sexual excitement from his life. Some even have sexless marriages.
As always, I did a little research. I am curious to know what people say about platonic sugar babies. The SugarSugar blog list the top ten reasons to become a sugar daddy. They add a footnote at the end. “Sugar daddies beware, there are some sugar babies under the impression that they can be your no-sex platonic friend and you will buy them things. What, their personalities and company are that amazing?!? Yeah right, maybe if you’re a 10″!
Here’s an interesting female take on the topic…
No, sex does not have to be involved. Yes, there are some men who are using their cash to essentially buy legal and continuous sex from young women and there are some Sugar Babies who are okay with that type of arrangement. However, there is a small population of TRUE Sugar Daddies. I’m talking about the Sugar Daddies that want you as arm candy and a companion to enjoy the fruits of their labor, no strings, whips, chains attached. It does get lonely at the top, why not share it? Obviously the best Sugar Daddies are the ones who don’t want sex, but want to help a young girl financially and provide her with new experiences she can’t simply afford at the tender age of twenty-something in exchange for a meaningful mentor-apprentice type of relationship. I digress into a dreamworld of a dream Sugar Daddy… Anyway, some people get a kick out of that type of relationship. Those people are usually lonely and have too much money on their hands. Us poor folk can not understand that concept, therefore we include the “she must be spreading her legs” in order to wrap our brains around it. Sorry to break it to you all, but that 60-something with that 20-something might have had a platonic relationship that warrants jealousy. ~ courtesy of The Sugar High Life
Although what SHL writes is compelling, I still want sex as part of my sugar dating. Honestly, I enjoy sex and having a connection with your sugar daddy makes the sex even better. Geez….I don’t want to ask sweet sugar baby jesus for a fuck buddy too. She is way too busy answering other prayers anyway.