Hi, I am new to this and I want to make you an offer…

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As promised to some Twitter followers, here is the conversation I had this morning with a POT.  His screen name is Don Juan. #1 Not so original #2 If you’re gonna use the name of one of the greatest lovers of all time, back your shit up with a decent offer, son.

This was his first email.  It actually came a few days ago and I just hadn’t responded to it yet.

This member has granted you permission to view their private photos. Click here to view Omar’s profile:www.seekingarrangement.com/member/detail.php?id=1431115

Love your profile.. Let’s start with some shopping.. Or shall we pay your bills first? :)

Not too shabby.  Kind of vague, but I can work with it….  He ended up emailing me again this morning.

Hey there.. :)

Okay so what I’d like to offer you is a $500 monthly allowance to help you out with expenses, shopping, or whatever else you’d like..

I’m a pretty laid back guy, so no drama or pressure, would just like to hang out a couple times a week maybe.. Preferably at your place..

Definitely need someone mature who understands that I’m married and can’t have any psycho behavior or stalkerishness! lolol..

Anyway, let me know what you think and if you’re interested we can discuss more or meet up… Have a great weekend!

I appreciate the offer, but $500 a month is far less than what I would expect or have received in past SD/SB relationships. Especially when you are asking someone to give up several nights a week and host.

Well I’d be available during the day if that helps… :)

Perhaps you didn’t understand what I was saying. I am a companion and my companionship is valuable in many ways, regardless of when you are available. An allowance is meant to support a SB financially. This would be inclusive of all bills. Spoiling, shopping, etc.. is above and beyond and is discretionary. $500 monthly is far from generous in this or any SB/SD situation. I think you would be better served to request the services of an escort.

Well your profile doesn’t convey that information, so it probably shouldn’t come as a surprise that I don’t understand. I’m not a mind reader, right? You’re 40 years old, so you probably don’t expect as much as a 25 year old, and they all ask for about $1000, so that’s how I approximated my offer. I may be better served by requesting an escort and you might be better off becoming one.

I am not a twenty-something twit, looking to go shopping. My profile conveys what and who I am. A serious sugar daddy should recognize that. You don’t have to be a mind reader to know what the nature of any serious arrangement is. Age has nothing to do with it and you basing an offer upon that is ridiculous. Moreover, insulting. Maybe you don’t truly understand what it is to be a Sugar Daddy or the meaning of what a Sugar baby is.

Although $1000 would be a better offer, my prior arrangements were much more than that.I wouldn’t become an escort, because as a sugar baby, it REALLY is more than the money. Even though we are debating dollars here, a sugar baby is so MUCH more than the money! She is a friend, confidant, lover, etc.. A sugar daddy is a friend, lover,confidant and mentor. The “allowance” is merely a show of appreciation for what she provides and not just in a sexual way.

Fair enough. I actually agree with you.

I regret what I said, but I did feel that you were speaking to me in a condescending fashion. Regardless, I shouldn’t have said that.

I’m probably not as serious of a sugar daddy as others you have encountered, primarily because I’m 29 years old. How many sugar daddies have you dealt with in their 20s? I’m not a multimillionaire and I can’t pay someone the equivalent of the average american salary to hang out with me a half dozen times a month. I’m also not asking anyone to be exclusive with me so feel free to carry on searching for a mega sugar daddy. Until that time, I’m here.

Your age should not matter either. It comes down to where you are emotionally/intellectually and how you go about seeking that. A serious SD offers the higher allowance, because he covets quality and is willing to make sure his SB is comfortable and provided for. This in turn, relieves worry and stress for the SB. She in Turn has more time of quality, to spend with her SD.I was really trying to explain that your $500 offer is more of a “filler” offer. That would definitely not garner you quality time several times a week with a serious SB.

He didn’t respond after that!

Sweet baby Jesus…..we have talked about this!  Stop sending these Newbies my way.  Although, it has me thinking.  I could possibly HELP these men.  I have an idea…..muahahahahahahaha



One thought on “Hi, I am new to this and I want to make you an offer…

    savvysugar said:
    April 5, 2013 at 9:00 am

    $500 a month to visit a “couple times a week?” That’s not a sugar relationship and he’s not a sugar daddy. I’d pass.

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