I took a break from the sites for the last few months, as I was busy. David, from Florida is/was mainly a text or talk on the phone thing, with the occasional visit to the sunshine state. Mr T was going strong until work started to pile up on him. Additionally, he is trying to get “healthy” with his home life and a few actual health issues. We still text, but not much has been seen of him lately. I had a blast from the past this week as well. “The Contractor”, whom I was seeing right as things were taking off with Mr T, e-mailed me. We’ve exchanged a few texts over the last week. I asked why he decided to contact me, after all this time. He said he remembered how fun and sexy I am and wanted to see how I was doing. Ummm…ok. He wasn’t then and I still don’t think, willing to contribute to a true SD/SB relationship. I’m gonna let that one go…lol
So, I have revamped my profile(s) to be much more direct and specific, as to what I want. I have had a few nibbles, but mostly much older (or older looking) men. Something I am not interested in at this time. There are a lot of fakes and picture collectors out there. In an effort to avoid these types, I have set all privacy settings as high as each sight will allow. A headless bikini shot is all they will get, until we talk and I decide that you can see my pretty face :) I get a lot of requests for my security code. I simply explain that I value my privacy and they can see what i look like, when we have spoken and I can see what they look like. It really is no different than picking someone up in public. Who goes after someone with a bag on their head, or a man you find unattractive??? NO ONE!!! As much as I’d like to be in a generous and honest arrangement, I will not settle for a set of wrinkly old balls!!
It is slow going so far and I am feeling a bit burnt out already. It really is exhausting to find the right one. I have set my standards a bit higher this time and I refuse to back down. He IS out there and he WILL be mine….